Comparing life in America to Japan
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Comparing life in America to Japan
I didn't see anything in the search section so I'm posting this here. This is question to those who have lived in America and now are in Japan.
How does life compare? Apartments, homes, way of life, job salary, etc.
I couldn't come to a complete conclusion after only being there 2 weeks but my impression is that it is pretty hectic in the city areas and calmer in the rural areas. And that Japan is a much better country than America.
How does life compare? Apartments, homes, way of life, job salary, etc.
I couldn't come to a complete conclusion after only being there 2 weeks but my impression is that it is pretty hectic in the city areas and calmer in the rural areas. And that Japan is a much better country than America.
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Re: Comparing life in America to Japan
The most important thing I learned from living 2 years in Japan is that I never want to live there for more than a year at a time.BrianM wrote:And that Japan is a much better country than America.
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Re: Comparing life in America to Japan
Looks like you still have on your rose-colored glasses.BrianM wrote:I didn't see anything in the search section so I'm posting this here. This is question to those who have lived in America and now are in Japan.
How does life compare? Apartments, homes, way of life, job salary, etc.
I couldn't come to a complete conclusion after only being there 2 weeks but my impression is that it is pretty hectic in the city areas and calmer in the rural areas. And that Japan is a much better country than America.
What exactly does it mean to be "better"? That's such a subjective judgement anyway, I think it's well-nigh impossible to state categorically which country is better. There are many things that I prefer about living in Japan, but also many things that I prefer about living in the States.
I'm curious as to what you disliked about living in Japan though, Yudan... What made you feel that you'd only want to live there for a year at a time?
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It's not that I have rose colored glasses. I know there are disadvantages about living in Japan, although I don't know them yet. That's why I made this thread. I want some insight to why some people left the US for Japan or prefer to live in the states.becki_kanou wrote:Looks like you still have on your rose-colored glasses.BrianM wrote:I didn't see anything in the search section so I'm posting this here. This is question to those who have lived in America and now are in Japan.
How does life compare? Apartments, homes, way of life, job salary, etc.
I couldn't come to a complete conclusion after only being there 2 weeks but my impression is that it is pretty hectic in the city areas and calmer in the rural areas. And that Japan is a much better country than America.
What exactly does it mean to be "better"? That's such a subjective judgement anyway, I think it's well-nigh impossible to state categorically which country is better. There are many things that I prefer about living in Japan, but also many things that I prefer about living in the States.
I'm curious as to what you disliked about living in Japan though, Yudan... What made you feel that you'd only want to live there for a year at a time?
I think it's better, but I also think Europe is better than America. Living here all my life and visiting Europe every other year since I was born, you really see the differences. America to me, seems to be a country that doesn't care about it's people. My college, Rutgers, raised tuition 8.5% all the while, building a new football stadium....does that make sense?
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Yes, because football is popular and brings money to the college.
Although I love football so I'm biased.
Although I love football so I'm biased.

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Lol, well that's what the dean said. I still think theres other ways but whatever, I'll be out of that hell hole in one year so it won't bother me thnYudan Taiteki wrote:Yes, because football is popular and brings money to the college.
Although I love football so I'm biased.

Re: Comparing life in America to Japan
You don't really see the differences by visiting. The only way to really see the differences is move there for an extended period of time. This goes for anywhere. Not just different countries.BrianM wrote: I think it's better, but I also think Europe is better than America. Living here all my life and visiting Europe every other year since I was born, you really see the differences. America to me, seems to be a country that doesn't care about it's people.
When you visit, you're really just scratching the surface. The pretty surface that is deliberately presented the world.
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Thats true and i know that. Thats why I want to try to go to Japan for a year, probably using the JET program or another program. That way I could see how real life is in Japan. That way I can make a better decision if I want to live there.Wakannai wrote:You don't really see the differences by visiting. The only way to really see the differences is move there for an extended period of time. This goes for anywhere. Not just different countries.BrianM wrote: I think it's better, but I also think Europe is better than America. Living here all my life and visiting Europe every other year since I was born, you really see the differences. America to me, seems to be a country that doesn't care about it's people.
When you visit, you're really just scratching the surface. The pretty surface that is deliberately presented the world.
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Re: Comparing life in America to Japan
You won't get an argument from me on that oneBrianM wrote:....... And that Japan is a much better country than America.

I agree with Wakannai-san. Being a tourist anywhere, be it in your own country or another, gives you a very different view than actually living there. Not only are you only scratching the surface but also you tend to be in a different frame of mind and usually under different budgetary constraints than if you are actually living and working in a place.
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Re: Comparing life in America to Japan
Nor me.chikara wrote:You won't get an argument from me on that oneBrianM wrote:....... And that Japan is a much better country than America.![]()

To be honest though, while I find that Japan is a much better fit FOR ME than America is, it's definately not everyone's cup of tea.
Every year I meet bushy-eyed, bright-tailed AETs who "Love Japan and are going to stay here forever because it's SO much better than america." Then they realize that their preconceptions are all false, start to hate Japan, and leave within a year or two.
Which is why you can never categorically say that any place is better than any other. It all matters about where YOU as a person fit in the best.
"Wherever you go. There you are."