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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby lame_duck » Fri 07.27.2007 3:54 am

I attract the wrong kind of woman in my own country. I'd hate to see what would happen if I started going for girls not from the US. :( Maybe I'm dressed too sharp? Maybe a different kind of sharp. Hmm...

The pain of being undeniably sexy... or is that in denial about being unsexy... :|
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby stevie » Fri 07.27.2007 6:50 am

Edit: If I could make some suggestions, they would be to be confident (stevie is right and probably a lady magnet


Ha, I dunno about that. I guess you could say I have my moments though :)


Then, I would say, be yourself because someone out there wants you


I agree with this but it's more because if you're not yourself I think you'd get really unhappy and frustrated, and suddenly you'd spend half your time wondering why 'she only likes me why I act like this'.
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby Mike Cash » Fri 07.27.2007 8:22 am

SenescenceReign wrote:
Harisenbon wrote:
charizardpal wrote:
Does anyone know what characteristics Japanese woman find to be attractive?


Being me? :o

:D


I think the point is for them to win the ladies, not you!


We're supposed to stand around and catch his overflow.

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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby kawada2998 » Fri 07.27.2007 8:57 am

stevie wrote:
Excitement and adventure and really wild things !

Actually, I did have a conversation with a Japanese friend of mine, she says every girl likes a sharp-dressed confident guy who works in a bank. I dunno about the bank (or to an extent, the sharp dressing), but I think you can't go wrong with a degree of confidence. Not to be confused with arrogance of course.

Oh, and make sure you watch lots of anime and do some cosplay. Oh and have Gackt on your mp3 player.


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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby Yudan Taiteki » Fri 07.27.2007 9:16 am

coco wrote:
Yudan Taiteki wrote:
All Japanese women like foreigners who like anime. That and cosplay.

こりゃたまらん :D


ああ、出た。 :)

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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby two_heads_talking » Fri 07.27.2007 11:06 am

Let's see .. What attracts japanese girls?

you would have to ask the girl that you are interested in what is attractive to her. it's different for each person.

some may like lazy, non-motivated mooches, while others may like over-achieving self-sentered snobs.

That original question was really well thought out wasn't it?
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby ess_jay_arr » Fri 07.27.2007 12:03 pm

two_heads_talking wrote:
you would have to ask the girl that you are interested in what is attractive to her.


Wouldn't advise this. :P I'm far from being an expert on the subject, but as I understand it, what girls find attractive, and what they like to think they find attractive, aren't necessarily the same thing.

Aside from that, as has already been mentioned, the one thing we can be fairly certain about is that confidence is attractive, and if you have to ask a girl what would make her attracted to you (presuming that's your reason for wanting to know what she finds attractive), it doesn't show a lot of confidence in yourself... and if you actually try change your appearance/personality to fit her tastes, it shows even less.

That's a lesson learned the hard way. ;)
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby spin13 » Fri 07.27.2007 12:18 pm

I'm pretty sure I know one Japanese lady who gets wet to the sound of 俺さま.

And by wet, I mean she laughs so hard she cries.
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby stevie » Sat 07.28.2007 4:38 am

yeah ess_jay_arr is right I think. Just believe in yourself, have confidence. Look her in the eye, be relaxed, smile, talk about things that other people don't necessarily talk to her about, and don't have a negative or cynical attitude (I find there is so much cynicism in the world, the last thing I want is to create more of it in my love life, and I don't really want to bestow that upon my girlfriend either). You'd realise what she finds attractive more this way anyway, I think.

On that note, it's maybe more useful to know what a girl -doesn't- find attractive. Again generalising these things is always a bit misleading, but I think guys that don't believe in themselves (no matter what their social status is), and guys that do not follow through on what they say, are the ones that lose out the most. But I think this is true in many parts of life, not just in romance - must be a respect thing.
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby UpHand » Sat 07.28.2007 9:03 pm

To the person who started this little topic.
Instead of actually thinking in races or genders here, you should just think in terms of individuals.

If it really was that easy to get someone based on a few simple awnsers, single people would not exist in this world.
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby Alternate132 » Wed 08.01.2007 5:34 am

This post made me laugh.
Just try not to look, act, or smell like a hobo.
Good hygiene and manners are instant brownie points with any decent woman.
...Nothing scares away girls like how BO does. (And maybe a horrible/strong cologne or deoderant.)

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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby Infidel » Wed 08.01.2007 5:54 am

You all are confused. Obviously the OP wants some Japanese Lady goodness. Instead of hints and pointers, check out this instructional video in how to woo Japanese chicks. You can't go wrong. Just follow the instructions and getting a Japanese woman is as easy as stealing candy from a baby, slapping the baby in the face and making him cry, eating the candy and taunting the baby, then dropping the wrapper on the ground and blaming the baby, then flexing in front of the baby to show off your manliness.
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby richvh » Wed 08.01.2007 6:48 am

You're a bad man, Infidel.
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby lemonaid » Wed 08.01.2007 7:23 am

Do you guys think a subtle mention of my Rosetta@Home credits will help me get some japanese girls? Maybe my chances will increase if I also slip in the fact that I play WoW and have two lvl 1080 paladins with cool swords and stuff...
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RE: What attracts Japanese woman

Postby Infidel » Wed 08.01.2007 8:46 am

I play WoW and have two lvl 1080 paladins with cool swords and stuff...


You're only level 1080? Noob!

You're a bad man, Infidel.


Thanks for the compliment.
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